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Everything I post on Instagram, in one place: the reels from my trips, the No-S*x Diaries, what I'm learning in my sex-ed studies, and life in between. Tap any post to read it.

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Berlin's very pink romance bookstore▶Berlin's very pink romance bookstoreOctober 1, 202640.40.September 30, 2026Chiang Mai has a spicy garden?!▶Chiang Mai has a spicy garden?!September 27, 2026What is the kinkiest club in Berlin?▶What is the kinkiest club in Berlin?September 25, 2026Budapest, a little impromptu photo shootBudapest, a little impromptu photo shootSeptember 22, 2026I tried an 18+ escape room in Budapest▶I tried an 18+ escape room in BudapestSeptember 21, 2026Forgot how beautiful Budapest isForgot how beautiful Budapest isSeptember 20, 2026Why I was at Montreal Fetish Weekend for school▶Why I was at Montreal Fetish Weekend for schoolSeptember 19, 2026A reminder of how far I've comeA reminder of how far I've comeSeptember 18, 2026The Ultimate Spicy Montreal Guide is hereThe Ultimate Spicy Montreal Guide is hereSeptember 17, 20265 date night ideas in Montreal, ranked by spice level▶5 date night ideas in Montreal, ranked by spice levelSeptember 16, 20263 things I learned at Montreal Fetish Weekend▶3 things I learned at Montreal Fetish WeekendSeptember 10, 2026Montreal Fetish Weekend photo dumpMontreal Fetish Weekend photo dumpSeptember 9, 2026Going back to school later in life looks like this▶Going back to school later in life looks like thisSeptember 8, 2026Entering a new eraEntering a new eraSeptember 5, 2026Another weekend with the Sexual Health Alliance▶Another weekend with the Sexual Health AllianceSeptember 5, 2026The No-S*x Diaries continue▶The No-S*x Diaries continueSeptember 2, 2026What I learned about kink and BDSM in Prague▶What I learned about kink and BDSM in PragueSeptember 1, 2026And that's a wrap on high seasonAnd that's a wrap on high seasonAugust 27, 2026A whole day with my partner and zero desire▶A whole day with my partner and zero desireAugust 26, 2026We all have different versions of ourselves▶We all have different versions of ourselvesAugust 25, 2026How differently every country approaches intimacy▶How differently every country approaches intimacyAugust 24, 2026Entering my not-giving-a-f* eraEntering my not-giving-a-f* eraAugust 23, 2026Let's talk about the No-S*x Diaries comments▶Let's talk about the No-S*x Diaries commentsAugust 22, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 19: we did it▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 19: we did itAugust 19, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 18▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 18August 18, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 17▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 17August 17, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 16 (whoops)▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 16 (whoops)August 16, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 10▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 10August 10, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 9▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 9August 10, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 8▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 8August 8, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 7: puppies▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 7: puppiesAugust 7, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 6▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 6August 6, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 5▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 5August 5, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 4▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 4August 4, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 3▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 3August 3, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 2▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 2August 2, 2026The No-S*x Diaries, day 1▶The No-S*x Diaries, day 1August 1, 2026Welcome to the No-S*x DiariesWelcome to the No-S*x DiariesJuly 31, 2026Just checking in: summer at the auberge▶Just checking in: summer at the aubergeJuly 12, 2026One of my favourite memories from Tokyo▶One of my favourite memories from TokyoJuly 8, 2026Japan, I owe you a proper visitJapan, I owe you a proper visitJune 26, 2026Japan's fascinating, misunderstood adult culture▶Japan's fascinating, misunderstood adult cultureJune 25, 2026The shower shootThe shower shootJune 24, 2026A women's rope ceremony in Mexico▶A women's rope ceremony in MexicoJune 22, 2026The love locks of Paris▶The love locks of ParisJune 21, 2026Hi, I'm AliHi, I'm AliJune 20, 2026Le ChoChotte, an intimate theatre in Paris▶Le ChoChotte, an intimate theatre in ParisJune 19, 20265 date ideas in Paris, ranked by spice level▶5 date ideas in Paris, ranked by spice levelJune 18, 2026Real-life threesomes vs. what you've seen onlineReal-life threesomes vs. what you've seen onlineJune 17, 2026Why I invested in my sex education▶Why I invested in my sex educationJune 16, 2026The "lost in the field" lookThe "lost in the field" lookJune 15, 2026Montreal's spicy summer guide (June)Montreal's spicy summer guide (June)June 13, 2026Confidence is something I had to work on▶Confidence is something I had to work onJune 12, 2026Happy birthday, GabHappy birthday, GabJune 10, 2026Pleasure travel: the kind of travel most people don't know exists▶Pleasure travel: the kind of travel most people don't know existsJune 4, 2026Story time: opening my relationship and my sexual health▶Story time: opening my relationship and my sexual healthJune 3, 2026No, I'm not a walking infectious diseaseNo, I'm not a walking infectious diseaseJune 2, 2026Our glamping project in Mexico▶Our glamping project in MexicoMay 26, 2026The most memorable retreat I've been on▶The most memorable retreat I've been onMay 25, 2026The farmer's daughter lookThe farmer's daughter lookMay 24, 2026There are very interesting ways to travel the world▶There are very interesting ways to travel the worldMay 23, 2026Why I don't do nudity onlineWhy I don't do nudity onlineMay 22, 2026His new favourite travel pastime▶His new favourite travel pastimeMay 20, 2026My sketches from a bondage life-drawing classMy sketches from a bondage life-drawing classMay 16, 2026Play parties vs. swingers parties (part 2)▶Play parties vs. swingers parties (part 2)May 16, 2026A family vacation▶A family vacationMay 15, 2026How to say no at play parties (part 1)▶How to say no at play parties (part 1)May 15, 2026Spicy cultural facts: Prague▶Spicy cultural facts: PragueMay 13, 2026A week at an intimacy retreat in Greece▶A week at an intimacy retreat in GreeceMay 11, 2026So much content online about "fixing" your relationshipSo much content online about "fixing" your relationshipMay 10, 2026My first intimacy retreatMy first intimacy retreatMay 5, 2026Spicy cultural facts: France▶Spicy cultural facts: FranceMay 3, 2026Burlesque dance classes▶Burlesque dance classesMay 2, 2026Lingerie shopping in Paris▶Lingerie shopping in ParisMay 1, 2026Wrapping up the Paris study abroadWrapping up the Paris study abroadMay 1, 2026Food, sex and art in France▶Food, sex and art in FranceApril 29, 2026Would I ever do nudity?Would I ever do nudity?April 28, 2026Backstage at the Crazy Horse in Paris▶Backstage at the Crazy Horse in ParisApril 27, 2026An idea for some novelty in your relationship▶An idea for some novelty in your relationshipApril 26, 2026A sensual night out at Le ChoChotte (part 2)▶A sensual night out at Le ChoChotte (part 2)April 24, 2026Eroticism, the body and art in FranceEroticism, the body and art in FranceApril 23, 2026Would you go to an erotic theatre in Paris? (part 1)▶Would you go to an erotic theatre in Paris? (part 1)April 23, 2026Day 2 in Paris: Napoleon's spicy history by bike▶Day 2 in Paris: Napoleon's spicy history by bikeApril 22, 2026Another study abroad in Paris▶Another study abroad in ParisApril 21, 2026Tbilisi photo dumpTbilisi photo dumpApril 19, 2026Sometimes I envy people who stay singleSometimes I envy people who stay singleApril 18, 2026Spicy cultural facts: Georgia▶Spicy cultural facts: GeorgiaApril 17, 2026Almaty, Kazakhstan: not what I expectedAlmaty, Kazakhstan: not what I expectedApril 16, 2026Sexual health clinics in Thailand▶Sexual health clinics in ThailandApril 13, 2026Cabbages & Condoms in Bangkok▶Cabbages & Condoms in BangkokApril 8, 2026That wraps up another trip to ThailandThat wraps up another trip to ThailandApril 5, 2026Thailand 2026 photo dumpThailand 2026 photo dumpApril 4, 2026Vacation sexVacation sexApril 1, 2026My first time on a Thai walking streetMy first time on a Thai walking streetMarch 29, 2026My 80s kinky Blade Runner shootMy 80s kinky Blade Runner shootMarch 27, 2026The Museum of Broken RelationshipsThe Museum of Broken RelationshipsMarch 20, 2026Almost 4 years of talking about sex onlineAlmost 4 years of talking about sex onlineMarch 18, 2026Spicy cultural facts: Bangkok▶Spicy cultural facts: BangkokMarch 17, 2026The street dogs I've met travellingThe street dogs I've met travellingMarch 16, 2026The Erotic Garden in Chiang Mai▶The Erotic Garden in Chiang MaiMarch 15, 2026Visiting the Erotic Garden and Tea House▶Visiting the Erotic Garden and Tea HouseMarch 14, 2026Why I keep coming back to Muay Thai▶Why I keep coming back to Muay ThaiMarch 13, 2026I actually love menI actually love menMarch 12, 2026Bits of ThailandBits of ThailandMarch 11, 2026The more you learn about your body, the more you love itThe more you learn about your body, the more you love itMarch 10, 2026What I learned at the Sex Museum in Amsterdam▶What I learned at the Sex Museum in AmsterdamMarch 9, 2026Spicy cultural facts: Thailand▶Spicy cultural facts: ThailandMarch 7, 2026A Galentine's fair in Mexico▶A Galentine's fair in MexicoMarch 6, 2026Bangkok's hidden oasis▶Bangkok's hidden oasisMarch 6, 2026I shared my fantasies in front of a crowd in Amsterdam▶I shared my fantasies in front of a crowd in AmsterdamMarch 5, 2026The genius behind Thailand's HIV success▶The genius behind Thailand's HIV successMarch 4, 2026Is winter over yet?Is winter over yet?March 4, 2026How scandalous it still is for a woman to talk about sex▶How scandalous it still is for a woman to talk about sexMarch 3, 2026Spicy cultural facts: Amsterdam▶Spicy cultural facts: AmsterdamMarch 1, 2026Pulse Clinic in BangkokPulse Clinic in BangkokFebruary 28, 2026Jungle feverJungle feverFebruary 27, 2026A deep dive into sexual health▶A deep dive into sexual healthFebruary 9, 2026Aftercare isn't just cuddles▶Aftercare isn't just cuddlesFebruary 3, 2026Prague's wild side▶Prague's wild sideJanuary 31, 2026Kink isn't what you think▶Kink isn't what you thinkJanuary 26, 2026Parents, disabilities and sex education▶Parents, disabilities and sex educationNovember 14, 2025The sex toy industry is changingThe sex toy industry is changingNovember 13, 2025Eat your fruit and veggiesEat your fruit and veggiesNovember 10, 2025Airports relax meAirports relax meNovember 9, 2025Behind the scenes of Paris Fetish Week▶Behind the scenes of Paris Fetish WeekNovember 8, 2025Neurodivergence and kink▶Neurodivergence and kinkNovember 7, 2025Dealing with jealousy▶Dealing with jealousyNovember 5, 20255 spicy date ideas in Montreal5 spicy date ideas in MontrealNovember 4, 2025When life gives you lemonsWhen life gives you lemonsOctober 23, 2025One of my favourite photos everOne of my favourite photos everOctober 22, 2025Surf camp warm-ups in Morocco▶Surf camp warm-ups in MoroccoOctober 21, 2025The most popular sexual fantasies, according to science▶The most popular sexual fantasies, according to scienceOctober 14, 2025My N*R* massage experience▶My N*R* massage experienceOctober 13, 2025Why women love smut booksWhy women love smut booksOctober 10, 2025Who's hungry?Who's hungry?October 8, 2025Celebrating another year▶Celebrating another yearOctober 7, 2025Why I take a solo trip for my birthday▶Why I take a solo trip for my birthdayOctober 6, 2025O-faces across cultures▶O-faces across culturesOctober 5, 2025The dom/sub fantasy▶The dom/sub fantasyOctober 3, 2025Are women less monogamous than men?Are women less monogamous than men?October 1, 2025Heat isn't just a tasteHeat isn't just a tasteSeptember 30, 2025Some people escape to resorts, I escape to retreatsSome people escape to resorts, I escape to retreatsSeptember 29, 2025Watching your partner have sex with someone else▶Watching your partner have sex with someone elseSeptember 24, 2025Sweet as honeySweet as honeySeptember 20, 2025Sexy, silly, happy and carefreeSexy, silly, happy and carefreeSeptember 18, 2025Learning to surf woke something up in me▶Learning to surf woke something up in meSeptember 17, 2025Elderly sex workers in Mexico▶Elderly sex workers in MexicoSeptember 15, 2025Can you take it all in?Can you take it all in?September 14, 2025Why playfulness might be the secret to better sexWhy playfulness might be the secret to better sexSeptember 11, 2025My first kayaking trip▶My first kayaking tripSeptember 10, 2025Bubble bath timeBubble bath timeSeptember 9, 2025Body image killing the vibe▶Body image killing the vibeSeptember 7, 2025Why the pineapple is the swingers' symbolWhy the pineapple is the swingers' symbolSeptember 5, 2025Sleep divorce?Sleep divorce?September 3, 2025An impromptu nature photo shoot▶An impromptu nature photo shootSeptember 2, 2025A few favourites from Thailand 2025A few favourites from Thailand 2025September 1, 2025For my feet lovers▶For my feet loversAugust 31, 2025A healthy relationship doesn't mean losing yourself▶A healthy relationship doesn't mean losing yourselfAugust 29, 2025Nature date vibes▶Nature date vibesAugust 27, 2025The real meaning of "Cherry Pie"The real meaning of "Cherry Pie"August 26, 2025The collar I bought in AmsterdamThe collar I bought in AmsterdamAugust 23, 2025Male sex workers in Amsterdam's windows▶Male sex workers in Amsterdam's windowsAugust 22, 2025Do you know many healthy relationships?▶Do you know many healthy relationships?August 20, 2025Pleasure isn't only in the bedroomPleasure isn't only in the bedroomAugust 19, 2025The hottest thing I've ever seen: a kink workshop in Prague▶The hottest thing I've ever seen: a kink workshop in PragueAugust 18, 2025Let's talk about the vulvaLet's talk about the vulvaAugust 17, 2025The art of casual sexThe art of casual sexAugust 16, 2025Women are turned on by more than you think▶Women are turned on by more than you thinkAugust 14, 2025Trying out more reels▶Trying out more reelsAugust 13, 2025Leaning into the spicy world, on purpose▶Leaning into the spicy world, on purposeAugust 12, 2025Why you should try a boudoir shootWhy you should try a boudoir shootAugust 11, 2025A reminder to date yourselfA reminder to date yourselfAugust 9, 2025Why fruit is so suggestiveWhy fruit is so suggestiveAugust 8, 2025The cereal made to kill your mojo▶The cereal made to kill your mojoAugust 7, 2025Stuck in the work routineStuck in the work routineAugust 4, 2025So much nobody tells us about sex▶So much nobody tells us about sexAugust 1, 2025The fine art of flirty banterThe fine art of flirty banterJuly 30, 2025Hi friends, it's been a whileHi friends, it's been a whileJuly 28, 2025By the poolBy the poolJuly 6, 2025SunshineSunshineJuly 5, 2025My lip-biting tic▶My lip-biting ticNovember 10, 2023Falling in love with Chiang Mai▶Falling in love with Chiang MaiNovember 10, 2023Muay Thai kicked my ass todayMuay Thai kicked my ass todayNovember 6, 2023Scared on a scooter in ThailandScared on a scooter in ThailandNovember 2, 2023Fried egg on everythingFried egg on everythingNovember 1, 2023Pool time in Icaraí, Brazil▶Pool time in Icaraí, BrazilOctober 29, 2023Thank you to everyone who bounced at our studio▶Thank you to everyone who bounced at our studioOctober 21, 2023Why I love agility exercises▶Why I love agility exercisesOctober 20, 2023Loving nature in Quebec in the fallLoving nature in Quebec in the fallOctober 19, 2023Spaghetti squash lasagnaSpaghetti squash lasagnaOctober 18, 2023A home exchange in OrfordA home exchange in OrfordOctober 17, 2023A very small cauliflowerA very small cauliflowerOctober 16, 2023I missed the fall colours▶I missed the fall coloursOctober 15, 2023Beginning my tennis era▶Beginning my tennis eraOctober 14, 2023Same shirt, different daySame shirt, different dayOctober 13, 2023Cinematic mode in Orford▶Cinematic mode in OrfordOctober 12, 2023When you want your meal to look a certain way▶When you want your meal to look a certain wayOctober 7, 2023My top 3 fitness instructor pet peeves▶My top 3 fitness instructor pet peevesOctober 6, 2023Cindy the vanCindy the vanOctober 6, 2023A 6 am sunrise meditation walkA 6 am sunrise meditation walkOctober 2, 2023Living in full food abundanceLiving in full food abundanceOctober 1, 2023Quebec in the fallQuebec in the fallSeptember 30, 2023Nature photosNature photosSeptember 29, 2023Cooking with Marti in ColombiaCooking with Marti in ColombiaSeptember 29, 2023The Charlevoix traverseThe Charlevoix traverseSeptember 29, 2023Isle-aux-CoudresIsle-aux-CoudresSeptember 29, 2023A high five in the mirrorA high five in the mirrorSeptember 29, 2023