The No-S*x Diaries, day 18

No Se*X 🌶️ Diaries: Day 18 🔥

If you’re new here, welcome! I talk about spice 🌶️, intimacy and relationships on the internet… while also working in hospitality with my partner. Right now we’re deep in our busiest season, fucking exhausted, and sexy time has very much taken a back seat. 😂

BUT… not having spicy time and not feeling sexy are two very different things.

I was tired AF when my friend @mzsim and I planned this shoot. Part of me absolutely wanted to bail, go home, shower and put my pajamas on. But I pushed myself to go… and I’m SO happy I did.

@mzsim is an artist, stylist, makeup director and basically an iPhone ninja 😂 and she has this incredible ability to make me feel amazing in front of a camera. We found a beautiful spot by the beach, played around, took some sexy photos and somewhere along the way I was like…

Oh hiiiii. There she is. 🔥😂

It felt SO GOOD to reconnect with that part of myself.

And that’s something these diaries are reminding me of: feeling sexy doesn’t have to lead to spicy time 🌶️. It doesn’t have to be for your partner or anyone else either. Sometimes you just want to feel fucking HOT 🥵 for yourself.

Also, friendly reminder that you don’t need a professional photoshoot. Find some good light, a beautiful setting and that one friend who knows how to WORK an iPhone. 😂📸

Still exhausted. Still not particularly interested in sexy time.

But am I hot?

Absolutely. 😂🔥

#intimacy #intimacymatters #pleasure #pleasureeducation #selfcare