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The No-S*x Diaries, day 6

The No-S*x DiariesSex ed 🎓Relationships 💞

No S*X 🌶️ Diaries: Day 6 😂

For anyone new here… welcome to the series where a person who talks about 🌶️ on the internet is documenting that sometimes the thing you crave most is… sitting alone in your car. 😂

Aside from all the intimacy and relationship talk, my boyfriend and I also work in hospitality, and we are DEEP in high season right now. 😬

The days are long. The work is physical. My brain is constantly on. And by the end of the day, the hottest thing I can imagine is a shower, bed, and nobody needing anything from me. 😂

Lately, my little car drives between properties have become my sanity saver.

I roll down the windows, and been blasting 90’s female rock artists like Melissa Etheridge and Alanis… that’s the energy I’ve been manifesting these days 🤣.

I think we put so much pressure on ourselves to always crave s*x, passion, and connection…

But sometimes your body is just asking for silence.

Sometimes self-care looks like sitting alone in your car, windows up, music loud, and letting yourself just be for a minute.

And honestly?

That counts too. ❤️ Those moments are precious and necessary to keep you well for when the passion and intimacy do come 🙂🙏 #intimacy #intimacymatters #pleasure #pleasureeducation #selfcare

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