The No-S*x Diaries, day 2

The No-S*X 🌶️ Diaries | Day 2 🌭😂

High season in the hotel industry has taken over our lives. We’re working so much that spicy time 🌶️ has quietly taken a back seat… so I’m documenting all the other ways intimacy shows up instead.

Okay… so apparently the only thing satisfying my oral fixation these days is a ridiculously loaded kimchi hot dog. 😂🌭

But honestly, this post isn’t really about the hot dog.

It’s about one of my favorite forms of intimacy: food.

Cooking has always been one of my love languages.

My kitchen is honestly my happy place. My little sanctuary. There is something so grounding about being in there alone, creating something, tasting as I go, making a beautiful mess, and knowing someone I love is going to enjoy it.

And one of my favorite things about cooking for Gab is how much he appreciates it. 🫠

There is something really special about making something with love and having someone actually notice the effort behind it. (Also… it’s pretty nice when someone thinks your food is amazing. 😂)

So yes… during this very chaotic season of life, our sexy time has definitely slowed down. 😂

But that doesn’t mean intimacy disappears.

I’m still showing love.
I’m still connecting.
I’m still finding little ways to take care of us.

Sometimes intimacy looks like a kiss.
Sometimes it looks like a hug.
Sometimes it looks like standing in your kitchen making your partner a ridiculous hot dog because you know they’re going to love it. 🌭❤️

And honestly? I think those little things matter.

Today’s intimacy looked like:
🌭 Cooking something I was excited to eat.
❤️ Feeding the person I love.

Now I want to know…

What’s your non-sexual love language? What’s the little thing you do that says “I love you” without saying it? #intimacy #pleasure #pleasureeducation #lovelanguage #cooking