I actually love men

Something I’ve been thinking about lately…

I actually love men. I’ve had amazing relationships, great 🌶️ experiences, and many positive interactions with men throughout my life. Nothing that ever made me feel bitter or afraid of them.

But wow… posting about 🌶️ online as a woman is a constant reminder of how far we still have to go when it comes to destigmatizing women talking about seggsuality.

Because the reality is, a small group of loud, disrespectful, or predatory behavior online ends up shaping the entire conversation. And unfortunately it reflects badly on a lot of genuinely good men who don’t behave that way.

Most of the men I know are thoughtful, curious, and capable of having mature conversations about egs 🌶️ and relationships. But the minority that can’t seem to do that… really makes it harder for everyone.

Talking about seggsuality 🌶️ should be normal. Educational. Even empowering.

Instead, it still often turns into shame, projection, or objectification.

So I’m curious…

How do we actually move this conversation forward?

#sexeducation #pleasureeducation #intimacymatters #sexfacts #pleasure