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Sometimes I envy people who stay single
Post · April 18, 2026

Sometimes I envy people who stay single

Relationships 💞

Lately, my algorithm has been showing me a lot of content about people choosing to not to be in a commited relationship. And I’ll be honest, sometimes I envy them 🙃!

Although I’d say I’m quite satisfied and happy in my relationship. There is still a part of me that misses being on my own sometimes.

But then when I think about not being into relationship, I ask myself, would I then miss it? Would I crave what I don’t have?

Single life gives you the freedom most people in relationships miss.

Relationships give you support most single people crave.

Both come with trade-offs. Both can feel fulfilling and both can feel lonely.

I think we’ve been taught to see one as “better”… instead of just different.

And so what do you think about changing the question from “which one is better” but “what actually works for you right now”.

I would LOVE to hear your thoughts on this one 👇

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