Welcome to the No-S*x Diaries

✨ Welcome to The No-S*X Diaries 😂

I’ve been thinking a lot about how to stay connected to this part of myself during one of the busiest seasons of my life.

Gab and I also work in hospitality, and the reality is… high season completely consumes us. My brain is running on check-ins, laundry, maintenance, emails, and a never-ending to-do list. By the end of the day, I have very little left to give.

I know I can’t commit to making YouTube videos right now. They take time and creative energy that I just don’t have at the moment.

But I can commit to this.

For the next 30 days, I’m going to share one honest little moment each day about intimacy (solo or in the couple) during a season where life has left very little room for 🌶️.

Honestly… this series is just as much for me as it is for you.

It’s my way of staying connected to this community, protecting my creative spark, and holding myself accountable to making space for something that fills my cup, even if it’s just a few minutes a day. I have a feeling it’s also going to help me get through these next few weeks without completely losing myself to work. ❤️😅

Because here’s the thing…

This isn’t actually a series about the absence of 🌶️.

It’s about all the little things that quietly protect intimacy until life finally slows down again (and I can’t effing wait!)

I think there’s this misconception that people who work in 🌶️ wellness are somehow living in a constant state of passion and play.

Spoiler alert… we’re not. 😂

Reality isn’t always scented candles, massage oils, and spontaneous afternoons in bed. Sometimes it’s laundry, plumbing emergencies, late dinners, and asking your partner if they remembered to eat.

Sometimes the hustle is real.

Sometimes there just isn’t room for the kind of 🌶️ or intimacy we think we should be having.

And that’s okay.

Desire comes in waves.

Connection comes in waves.

Right now?

We’re riding a very dry wave. 🌊😂

So welcome to The No-S*X Diaries.

Let’s see what intimacy looks like when life gets real busy AF! 😅🙃🤣 #intimacy #pleasureeductaion #pleasure #worklifebalance #workhardplayharder