Body image killing the vibe

I think many of you can relate to this one… Worrying 😳about what you look like during seggs as opposed to focusing on HOW IT FEELS🫠

How many times have you thought about sucking in your doughy bits, the way your butt looks, the way you sound, the texture of your skin and so on.

This is something I spent most of my life paying more attention too… but entering my later 30’s, and loving my my body more and more, this is becoming less of an issue.

Why? I’m not sure…maybe just getting wiser? The older I get the more confident I feel in my skin. Which allows me to lean in more on how seggs feels which then leads to many many more pleasurable moments 😌

And honestly… makes me seggsier in the eyes of my partner too 😏

I mean I’m not gonna lie, it still creeps up on me here and there, depending on the day and the mood 😬 but I think that’s part of being human!

What about youuuu? Worrying about the way you look, or maybe the performance pressure (many men get this) get in the way of feeling the pleasure?

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