The No-S*x Diaries, day 16 (whoops)

NO-S*X🌶️ Diaries: Day 16 🫠😂

Okay soooo… remember when this was supposed to be a daily series?

Last post: Day 10.

Today: Day 16.

WHOOPS. 😂

But honestly, the missing six days might be the most accurate representation of this series yet.

Work got crazy. Some life stuff happened. I was tired, overwhelmed, and somewhere along the way I just didn’t have the time, energy OR motivation to make these posts.

And guess what else I haven’t had much time, energy or motivation for?

Spice 🌶️😂

That’s kind of the whole point of this series.

Sometimes life takes over. Spicy 🌶️ time gets pushed down the list. Your routines disappear. The things you normally enjoy doing don’t necessarily disappear forever… you just don’t have the capacity for them right now.

And I’m trying really hard not to make that mean something bigger than it does.

This is a season.

BUT… even in the middle of all of that, we have been trying to find little pockets where we can put everything down and just exist together.

So we got the hell away from the hotel again, sat ourselves in front of a fire 🔥 and did absolutely NOTHING.

No computer. No clients. No cleaning rooms. No trying to be productive.

Just fire, fresh air, and us.

And holy shit did it feel good.

I think that’s what I’m learning most from these diaries. When you don’t have the capacity for big romantic gestures, passionate nights or even a damn quickie 😂… the small moments start to matter a lot more.

The bedroom activities will come back.

I’m literally sleeping on the pullout couch right now 😅.

My motivation to post apparently came back. 😂

For now, I’ll take a quiet fire and a little breathing room. ❤️

Spice 🌶️ comes in seasons. Connection can too. Sometimes you just take what you can get.

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