The No-S*x Diaries, day 19: we did it

The NO-S*X 🌶️ Diaries : Day 19

WE DID IT. 😂🌸

Well. The series is coming to an end.

If you’re new here, I started this series, because my partner and I work in hospitality and high season absolutely kicked our asses. Long, physical days, constantly “on”… “s*x”basically disappeared from the priority list.

But there was another reason I started sharing this.

I had become SO immersed in the season that I felt disconnected from this other part of my life, talking about spice and intimacy, creating, learning, sharing… all the stuff that normally lights me up.

I didn’t have the brain space for my usual content, so these little diaries became a way to stay creative and connected to that part of myself.

And also to remind everyone of a very important fact:

I TALK ABOUT SPICE 🌶️ ON THE INTERNET… BUT WE AIN’T “DOING IT” EVERY NIGHT. 😂

Spice 🌶️ comes in seasons. Sometimes you’re having lots of it. Sometimes you’re not. Sometimes you’re so damn tired that even a quickie sounds like another task on the to-do list.

But the season is FINALLY winding down. We’re also about to spend some time travelling separately, so when we suddenly had a quiet night… I decided I was TAKING IT. 😂

We live in a hotel, Gab loves baths, so why the hell aren’t we taking advantage of this?! Candles, flowers, music, fruit, a few toys… I went all in.

And the funny part? At first we were STILL so tired that I genuinely wasn’t sure we’d do it. We just sat there and melted into the bath.

But then we relaxed. We talked. We had nowhere else to be.

And slowly… desire showed up.

No forcing it. No “we should do it.” We finally gave our bodies some space to decompress and see what happened.

And apparently… something happened. 😂

So is this the end of the series?

Yes and no.

I thought I was documenting 30 days without socs. Turns out I was documenting something much more interesting: real life.

I loved sharing these little moments with you, so maybe the diaries stay… just without the “No S*X.”

Sometimes spicy. Sometimes exhausted. Sometimes connected. Sometimes annoyed. Sometimes sexy.