Hi, I'm Ali

Hi, I’m Ali. 👋

I’ve been a teacher, a disability support worker, a fitness studio owner, a hotel operator, a traveler, a YouTuber, and now a secs educator in training.

Somewhere along the way, I became fascinated by secs, relationships, intimacy, and why so many of us feel weird talking about things that are completely normal.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

✌️Most people are a lot more curious than they admit.

✌️Most people have questions they’re afraid to ask.

✌️And most people are worried someone will judge them for being human.

✌️ I don’t think conversations about secs need more shame, fear, or finger-wagging.

I think they need a little more humor.

A little more honesty.

A little more “wait…you think that too?!”👀👀

You don’t have to become a swinger, move to a nudist colony, or sacrifice a goat under a full moon.

You also won’t go to hell for thinking about secs.

You’re allowed to be curious.

You’re allowed to ask questions.

You’re allowed to want a life, relationship, and secs life that actually works for you.

So if you’re into conversations about pleasure, relationships, travel, personal growth, and the weird adventure of being human…

Welcome. ❤️

I’m figuring it out as I go, and you’re invited along for the ride.

Say hello! 👋 👇🏼 And let me know what is one thing on your mind when it comes to pleasure and intimacy.