A Couples Course by Ali

Open & Honest

The step-by-step course for couples ready to explore ethical non-monogamy — with real scripts, worksheets, and zero judgment.

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5 modules · Audio lessons + worksheets · Lifetime access

🎧 5 audio modules
📄 4 downloadable worksheets
💬 Real scripts & protocols
🔒 Lifetime access

The 5 Modules

From the first scary conversation to finding partners on the road — everything you need, in order.

Module 1

The Blueprint — Designing Your Relationship

Move from "we're just winging it" to "we have an agreement."

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Audio Lesson: Rules vs. Values

Why trying to control your partner with 100 rules fails, and why a "Value System" works better.

The "Hard Limits" Audit

  • Sit down separately and write your 3 absolute hard limits (e.g., no exes, no mutual friends, safe sex mandatory)
  • Compare lists. These are the only rigid rules — everything else is negotiable.
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Download: "Designer Relationship" Worksheet

Checkboxes for what you are: Monogamish, Swinger, Open, Don't Ask Don't Tell.

Module 2

The Pitch — How to Open Up

Have "The Conversation" without a fight or a breakup.

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Audio Lesson: The Scary Conversation

How Ali brought it up to her partner. Timing, setting, and tone.

The 3-Step Script

  • Step 1 — Validate: "I love our life and I'm so attracted to you."
  • Step 2 — Express (use "I"): "I feel like I have a side of me that wants to explore X, not because you aren't enough, but because I want to experience Y."
  • Step 3 — Safety Net: "I only want to do this if it brings us closer. If it hurts us, we stop."
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Homework

Schedule a "State of the Union" date night to discuss this — no phones, no TV.

Module 3

The Safety Net — Jealousy & Aftercare

Creating a protocol for when feelings get hurt.

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Audio Lesson: The Jealousy First-Aid Kit

Treating jealousy as a "Check Engine Light," not a Stop Sign.

The "Gremlin" Protocol

  • When you feel jealous, text/say the code word (e.g., "Monkey")
  • Partner's job: Pause. Reassure. Do not get defensive.
  • Your job: Identify the specific fear — Am I being replaced? Do I feel left out?

The Reconnection Ritual (Aftercare)

Define exactly what happens after a date with someone else — 10 minutes of cuddling, a shower together, or "don't tell me details until morning."

Module 4

The Hunt — Apps & Finding Partners

How to actually find people without being creepy or getting scammed.

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Audio Lesson: The Meat Market

How to set up a profile on Feeld, Tinder, and local apps.

The Profile Audit

  • Couples: Don't use a joint profile — it scares people. Link two separate profiles.
  • Photos: 1 face, 1 full body, 1 "vibe" shot (travel/lifestyle).
  • Bio: State exactly what you're looking for (e.g., "ENM couple looking for guest stars for travel").

The 3-Question Vetting Screen

  • "Have you played with a couple/person in a relationship before?"
  • "What are your boundaries?"
  • "When was your last test?"
Module 5

The Lifestyle — Travel & Logistics

Executing this while on the road — the Ali special.

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Audio Lesson: Solo vs. Duo Play

The difference between "Hall Passes" when traveling alone vs. playing together.

The "Location Scout" Technique

  • Safety protocol: "Share Location" rules and check-in times
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Download: Travel Safety Checklist

What to pack: condoms, cash, burner phone info, local emergency numbers.

What's Included

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5 Audio Lessons

Real talk from a real couple — listen anywhere, no screen required.

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Scripts & Worksheets

Word-for-word scripts, checklists, and printable worksheets you can use tonight.

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Lifetime Access

Listen at your own pace. Come back anytime. Updates included forever.

Who Made This

Ali Imperiale

Ali

I'm a real person who actually lives this. I've navigated jealousy, awkward conversations, threesomes, dating apps, and the lifestyle across 30+ countries and 3 continents. This course is everything I wish someone had told me before I started.

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  • 5 audio modules with real-world examples
  • Word-for-word conversation scripts
  • 4 downloadable worksheets & checklists
  • The Travel Safety Checklist
  • Lifetime access & future updates
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FAQ

Couples who are curious about opening their relationship — whether you've already started or just want to have the first conversation. It works for people at any stage: curious, exploring, or already living the lifestyle.

Ideally, yes. The exercises are designed for both partners. But if one of you isn't ready yet, listening solo will still give you the language and tools to bring it up the right way.

No. We're not therapists. We're a couple who's been through it and built a system that works. Think of it as the practical companion to therapy — the "how-to" that most therapists can't give you because they haven't lived it.

Each module is 5–10 minutes of audio plus downloadable worksheets. Listen on your commute, at the gym, or in bed. You can go through the whole thing in an evening, or take it one module per week.

30-day money-back guarantee, no questions asked. If it doesn't help, just email us and we'll refund you.

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