The No-S*x Diaries, day 9

Welcome to The NO- S*. 🌶️Diaries: Day 9 😂

For anyone new here… aside from talking about spice 🌶️ on the internet, my boyfriend and I also own/work in hospitality. And right now we are DEEP in high season.

So when I say we’re too tired for sex… I present to you: Exhibit A. 😂

This is me first thing in the morning, still in my PJs, already on my computer dealing with hotel stuff… knowing that as soon as I close it, I’m putting on my cleaning clothes and spending the rest of the day physically working my ass off.

Sexy, right? 😂

And honestly, I think this is exactly why I wanted to share these Diaries.

There’s so much messaging around how we should ALWAYS be prioritizing spice🌶️. Make time for it! Schedule it! Keep the spark alive! Don’t become roommates!

And sure… there’s a time and place for all of that.

But there’s also a time and place for saying: we are effing tired. 😂

Spice 🌶️ comes in seasons. Right now, this is our work-our-asses-off-and-make-money season. We know it won’t last forever. I’m not panicking about it, I’m not forcing myself to feel sexy when I don’t, and I’m definitely not adding “have sex” to an already ridiculous to-do list.

We’ll get back there.

For now, I have rooms to clean. 😂

Follow along to see if we ever have socs again. ❤️ #intimacy #intimacymatters #pleasure #pleasureeducation #relationships