Yes / No / Maybe List
A private, judgment-free tool for couples to communicate desires, establish boundaries, and find shared fantasies. All data stays in your browser.
Ready to explore?
How this works:
1. Partner 1 goes through the list alone.
2. Partner 2 goes through the same list.
3. The tool reveals only the things you both said Yes or Maybe to.
Your Overlap
Here are the things you both said Yes or Maybe to. Time to talk!
Why Use a Yes/No/Maybe List?
Talking about sex, boundaries, and fantasies can feel vulnerable. For many couples, bringing up a new idea feels risky — what if your partner judges you? What if they say no and things get awkward?
A Yes/No/Maybe list removes the pressure. It’s a structured, gamified way to explore what’s on the table. Because this tool only shows you the overlap (the things you both said Yes or Maybe to), you never have to feel rejected if you propose something your partner isn't into. If they marked it "No," it just disappears from the final results.
Think of this not as a to-do list, but as a conversation starter. If you both marked "Maybe" on something, that doesn't mean you have to do it tonight. It just means: "I'm curious enough to talk about this over a glass of wine."
Frequently Asked Questions
Is my data private?
100%. This tool operates entirely within your web browser. No data is saved, tracked, or sent to any server. When you close the tab, your answers are gone forever.
What if we have very little overlap?
That is completely normal, especially if you haven't discussed these topics much before. Focus on the few things you did overlap on! Quality of connection matters more than the quantity of activities.
Can we change our minds?
Always. A "Yes" today might be a "No" tomorrow. Enthusiastic, ongoing consent is the foundation of any healthy sexual relationship.